Embrace yourself

 

We speak today of a male and female energy and it is a sad fact that in your society, the female energy has been repressed, and even suppressed, for a long time. You have become used to overcoming life with your analytical mind, but the mind is not meant to act independently; the mind was meant to be an instrument of the soul. When the mind acts on its own, it loses its roots, its connection with the Earth and with the heart. The mind can be incredibly smart and intelligent, but if it loses its connection with the heart, it becomes destructive in many ways. I am here to call upon you to restore the connection between your mind and your heart, between the male and the female.

 

First of all, I ask you to now connect with your heart. Simply imagine that your awareness, your consciousness, goes down from your head into your heart, and know that everything you focus on with your attention will enliven and grow because of that consciousness. So, as you focus your attention on your heart, your heart center will open like a flower. And because we are now all together, our combined energy will reinforce the power you can feel in your heart.

 

Feel how each one of us present has their own pain, their own joy, their own struggles in life. Each one of us longs for connection, for meaningfulness, for being part of the whole. This yearning you all have for meaning, for warmth, for love is actually the biggest hope for humanity, because this yearning for wholeness, this desire for connection, is true and is leading you to another way of living.

 

Feel the pain that is present inside your heart, the loneliness that is there. I wish you would face it openly. In all your hearts is a sense of being lost and confused, of not understanding: “Why am I here, what is the meaning of life?” Feel that loneliness, that yearning in your heart and imagine you put your hands around it very gently.

 

In the middle of your heart, you might be able to see the face of a child, longing, or perhaps even crying. Reach out to it and touch it gently on the cheek. You have angelic energy inside you, the energy of an angel. You all are angels descended into human form, and this world is in need of angels. You have to first touch your own pain, your own wounded heart, before you can bring healing to others.

 

So recognize this wounded child within and start to caress it, to comfort it. Surround it with the colors that it likes as you work with it on an energy level and say to this child: “You are welcome on Earth, we need you. We need your spontaneity; we need your originality, your uniqueness.” Your soul is a unique part of the universe and is here on Earth right now to bring something special to this planet, and you can only do this when you recognize your inner beauty, your greatness, your strength.

 

The first step to living according to your soul is to recognize that you are a soul and that you are much more than just a human personality fitting in with society. As you connect with your greatness as a soul, you also discover the wounded child about whom I just talked. You become aware of all the ways you do not fit in with society. It is always the case that the more you connect with your inner being, the more you feel a stranger to society. It takes courage and determination to pursue the spiritual journey that goes to the inner levels.

 

I would now like to speak about male/female relationships, or sexual partner relationships in general. You all have that inner hole, that wound in your heart, and when you are not aware of it, you unconsciously bring it into your relationships. You have that yearning for complete oneness with someone else. That is the promise you feel when you fall in love with someone else. You feel a kind of ecstasy, you feel such hope for redemption, for complete liberation of your feeling of loneliness, so you hold very high hopes when you enter into a romantic relationship. But after awhile, you often find there are misunderstandings and struggles between you.

 

So many of these misunderstandings are due to the fact that you do not see your own wounded inner child. When you do not take responsibility for looking consciously at your own emotional wounds, this will create a barrier in your relationship with the other person. You still have the hope that the other person will completely understand you, will save you, will liberate you, but on the other hand, you feel frustrated because this does not happen.

 

So, paradoxically, when you want to have a truly healing relationship, you first have to know how to embrace yourself. You have to truly face your aloneness and your loneliness, and put your arms around it. When you really connect to your own soul and feel the joy of it, you feel abundant, even if you are on your own. Your heart is overflowing and then you do not need that other person to fill the hole in your heart. You will still have issues or imbalances, and the other person may actually help you to become more whole, but you basically know that you have to take care of yourself.

 

For all of you, whether you are a man or a woman, it is of vital importance that you recognize the pain that is naturally inside you as a human being and take care of it. As you treat yourself with kindness, with gentleness, you start to recognize your own healing energy. You first have to give that healing energy to yourself.

 

So now imagine that an angel is standing behind you with its wings about you. This is you, your higher female energy. You come from the highest realms and that is why I say we are equals, why I kneel down before you and praise your courage. Feel the angel’s energy and allow it to flow into your body. Perhaps you see colors or feel a certain vibration, and notice if there are areas in your body that are not very open to this vibration, that are perhaps a bit reluctant.

 

When you see there are parts of you that are reluctant to receive your own soul’s energy, your higher energy, do not try to force it. Make your awareness even more gentle, more tender and kind. Wrap your consciousness around that blockage and tell it: “I accept you, there is a reason for your being there”. When a part of you feels blocked, it has a reason for being so because of its history. This part of you may be in fear, it may feel resistance or anger, and it will not give way by reasoning with it, by talking to it from the mind. Also, you cannot discipline or punish it, because that will not work.

 

To reach out to the darkest part of yourself, the part of you that feels most afraid and lonely, you need love – love is the key. Look at the face of the angel behind you. This is the face of love: complete gentleness and understanding. Take a moment to really feel the presence of compassion and allow that energy to flow into the deepest parts of you.

 

This is the energy that will bring change to humanity: the energy of love. When I look at you, I see old and wise souls, I see both sadness and wisdom in your being. Some of you have become quite discouraged about life and I so dearly want you to know that you are loved immeasurably and that we need you here. You are the hope for a new world. Please accept this message from me and embrace yourself, shower yourself with compassion and encouragement.

 

Thank you all for being here today.

 

© Pamela Kribbe

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